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Dignity — January 2, 2015

Dignity

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The only thing I learn about growing up was just the idea of dramaturgy,  that life is like a never ending drama in which people are the actors of their own. This everyday life is our stage that we need to play our role smoothly as well as we going to an end.

We become really good to maintain our front stage so much different with our back stage. But lately, this is just going much crazy… wondering how it happens on people with a good achievement and so much followers. But they prefer meaning it as just the spare.. They didn’t really mean it.

They just want to perform perfect but forget about their real- detail things. They just ACT in front of others in order to manipulate others’ impression. Regrettably, they didnt really maintain it as well as their truth personality. Its like there is no a real innocent person left, they just act as what  they want people to see.

Pretending a good impression just to them wo would give any advantage or imply their status. They just focus to people who could gave any priority to them  in order to maintain his/her achievement.   So how it would be when he/she  behave with people from another circle? (who doesn’t influent them ) They would act perfectly different. They didn’t care about their behave to them if  it is properly or not.They just making fun of it.  They just act what they want to act…  removing  their mask. Their truly self….their back stage, so much different as what delivered on their main circle.

As simple as that..

Doesn’t matter how bad it is, because it would not imply their image for any chance (since its from another circle) .  They didn’t care other people see them that bad as it has anything to do to their image on their front stage or main circle.

I dont know again.. how this world going to. Which one true or false, just blurred because everyone has their own argument.  One pretend like it has nothing to do with religion. Or claiming their framework as liberal or anything. Utilizing  justification as the truth. Annoying! isn’t it?

Ok then.. It is doesn’t deal with any religion.. but do you people remember about dignity?

Dignity, the only thing that I find it really hard today on people.To me it is the only thing should be maintained. It would be the answer for faking-friendship, cheat competitor,  lying people, unresponsible person, dishonest, corruption, …etc

As time goes.. it will reveal a lot about who has dignity and who has it not. Whatever their achievement or image its not the only measurement we should concerned about. Because it doesn’t answer anything. Why it is the main thing I sure about because without it (dignity) our identity just erased. It would maintain people long-lasting character. To not to always disappeared into the background where they were stand. To be brutally honest to ourself, and others. To be have our responsibility about our choice and its concequency. Because what we send out will comes back.

The dignity will be there on people who behave naturally, good everywhere without masked their own life. To wear Your Heart On Your Sleeve. They, who didnt that much concerned about people praises but doing their best everywhere to everyone. Without separating other as influental one or not. It kind of person who behave for them self only, as their own dignity against them to  do wrong  things. They take manners above everything.  It kind of people who’ve been done with them self.  To be what they really are without fooling others.

no matter how hard this life, only dignity still remains it is worth far more than anything….Lets our patience keep our dignity. – @syailariza

Knowledge Everyday = Wealthy — May 6, 2014

Knowledge Everyday = Wealthy

Knowledge Everyday = Wealthy – @syailariza

  1. There is no wealth like knowledge, and no poverty like ignorance.-Buddha #KEy+
  2. Look at the Wealth versus Poverty at my prev tweet.Thats just define our life. Others have wealth life and the others under poverty #KEy+
  3. Then what can of life do you want to live? of course the wealthy life right? #KEy+
  4.  Then the first thing that we need is a knowledge. Just like our basic needs as our resources to build social/eco/cultural capital. #KEy+
  5. Because if you have network and trust but u dn’t hve knowledge you will not hv another access to this globalization and modern world #KEy+
  6. Information and knowledge as an significant role to keep our self survive as our “power” #KEy+
  7. This “power” strengthened our capital. !!! wealthy life..in our hand ! #KEy+
  8. if you want build ur capital then just join w #KEy here -> bit.ly/joinkey +
  9. Knowledge Everyday = Wealthy vs Ignorance = Poverty #KEy
Why People Commited Suicide? —

Why People Commited Suicide?

Why People Commited Suicide?@syaialriza

  1. Why #Key? Because we believe that knowledge is a tool to open the gate of change. Let’s have “Knowledge Everyday”! 🙂+
  2. Mlm ini, sy akn nge-#KEy ttg mngapa seseorang mlkukan bunuh diri (Suicide). Durkheim defined suicide from a social fact #perspective+
  3. Ever heard about “Caleg” commited suicide? Why people committed suicide? #KEy+
  4. At first glance, suicidal behavior can be defined as a personal choice. The cause is often associated with psychiatric disorders #KEy+
  5. However,Durkheim emphasises that the force, which determines the suicide, is not psychological but social. #KEy+
  6. Durkheim found4 distinctive types of suicides that occur as social facts &could be collectively remedied by adjusting social processes #KEy+
  7. Egoistic Suicide: when a man becomes socially isolated or feels that he has no place in the society he destroys himself. #KEy+
  8. This is the suicide of self-centred person who lacks altruistic feelings and is usually cut off from main stream of the society.#KEy+
  9.  Altruistic suicide: This type of suicide occurs when individuals and the group are too close and intimate.#KEy+
  10. This kind of suicide results from the over integration of the individual into social proof #KEy+
  11. Anomic suicide: it is due to certain breakdown of social equilibrium, e: suicide after bankruptcy or after winning a lottery. #KEy+
  12. What is Anomie? Anomie= Role shift+vague expectations about what is expected+ sudden change #KEy+
  13. Fatalistic Suicide : This type of suicide is due to overregulation in society. #KEy+
  14. Finally, the solutions that could be take are to build a strong connection with the family and community, #KEy+
  15. Promote our cultural&religious beliefs that discourage suicide,as well as support self-preservations&other types of social supports #KEy+
Who are Swing Voters? —

Who are Swing Voters?

Who are Swing Voters? – @syailariza

  1. Hi, tweeps! Apa kabar? Dari sekarang, tiap hari saya bakal nge #Key (Knowledge Everyday) nih. 😀+
  2. Jadi, setiap hari saya akan cari knowledge baru dari sumber yang cukup kredibel (buku, jurnal, life experience, etc). #Key+
  3. Why #Key? Because we believe that knowledge is a tool to open the gate of change. Let’s have “Knowledge Everyday”! 🙂+
  4. Wah bsk Pemilu Legislatif ya? Apa sih esensi Pemilu? dan Ada yang tau gak tipologi pemilih di Indonesia? #Key+
  5. Pemilu mrpkn “Jalan Damai” rotasi kepemimpinan(legislatif&eksektif); mendorong transisi bangsa Indonesia mnuju konsolidasi demokrasi#Key+
  6. Nah… Firmansyah (2008) mengkategorikan pemilih kedalam tipologi pemilih. #Key+
  7. yg pertma, Pemilih Rasional. Pemilih yg ky gini yang melihat platform partai, kinerja dan udh ga peduli garis” primordial partai. #Key+
  8. Kedua, Pemilih Kritis. Pemilih yg ni udh mengawinkan ideologi partai dgn gagasannya. Mengkritisi ideologi dngn realita di lapangan .. #Key+
  9. Ketiga,Pemilih Tradisional. Nah pemilih ini memilih berdasarkan primordialisme mrk, Jawa memilih Jawa, org NU memilih NU, dll #Key+
  10. Keempat, Pemilih Skeptis. Ini trmasuk pemilih yg random, tidak terencana, mrk cnderung tidak peduli & berpotensi Golput (jgn ditiru ya)#Key+
  11. Tapi sering kan denger Swing Voters menjadi bagian penting dari prediksi para pengamat pol thd hasil dari pemilu legislatif 9 Apri #Key+
  12. Siapa sbnrnya Swing Voters?Swing Voters mrpkn pemilih yg mrpk seseorang yang tdk setia dgn pilihan partai atau calonnya #Key+
  13. a. Mengacu pd tipologi Firmansyah Swing Voters msk dlm pemilih Rasional. Karena Swing Voters disini pernah memilih namun kemudian..+
  14. b…(cont) berpindah karena kekecewaan nya terhadap partai..ada proses rasionalisasi thdp kinerja parpol, dll. #Key+
  15. c. Namun dlm konteks Survei Prilaku Pemilih,Swing Voters kerap didefinisikan sebagai Undecided Voters,org” yg blm mmutuskan pilihan#Key+
  16. d.Mas @BurhanMuhtadi mengatakan 8 dari 10 Pemilih di Indonesia merupakan Swing Voters..potensi partai utk memenangkan Pemilu #Key
should try this one. — May 4, 2014